So I had the nexplanon removed recently because it was messing with my mental health and my libido was so low that my boyfriend and I didn't really even have sex anymore anyways. He's been really supportive about it and we agreed to be abstinate to give my body time to get back to normal. Problem is.... it's been two weeks and my libido has returned in full swing. I want to jump his bones like every second. Every time things start heating up and I'm about to give in, he stops me and goes down on me (how did I get so lucky?) Anyways, we need something more and I really don't want to budge on other birth control methods because getting pregnant right now is out of the question. So, do any of you ladies have any tips for making oral sex more exciting? Like your favorite toys for couples? We have done anal before but I have never been able to get past how painful it is for me🙄