ex boyfriend & sex

Charissa
Okay, so my ex & I broke up a few weeks ago because I was trying to teach him a lesson & then we just recently started counseling, so last weekend I went over to his sisters house because all of our friends were there & he ended up being there as well, moral of the story we both got a little drunk & had sex, st first I was like okay it's just a one time thing we were drunk no big deal, but it happened AGAIN last night but completely sober, I don't know if it's okay to do or a good idea or what, I'm in a really difficult & confused spot right now, he wants to get back together & so do I but just not right now, any relationship advice would be great & much appreciated 💕