DID I CHEAT?????

Question

Im 16 .I'm with my boyfriend 3 months , last weekend I went to a party with a few friends . I drank a lot of vodka and some other people's drinks . I was super drunk , this guy was literally all over me , he was up against a wall and I was right up against him he had is arms around me and his hands on my butt !! I kept trying to make out , but I was turning my head  . Our tongues touched for like 2 seconds but I pulled back . He kept saying my boyfriend wouldn't find out and stuff (that's what they all say ) !!! Then he tried to finger me , but I pulled his hands out . We didn't do anything sexual and just kinda touched our tongues . And he is a total jerk !!!! But does it count as cheating ? I love my boyfriends so much and I really really regret doing what I did, I cried for like 2 hours when I got back . I don't want to tell him because I  know he will break up with me . HELLLPPPPPPPPPPPPP

Answer

Unpopular opinion!!! Try not to put yourself in situations where something could go terribly wrong, like being 16 and drunk around people, so please be more careful bc who knows what else might have happened and even if I don't know you, I wouldn't want something horrible happening to you.
Although I personally do not think being drunk is an excuse for cheating, and you seemed somewhat aware of going on since you were aware of the whole "your boyfriend won't find out" situation, and you even said that you tried to make out. Although for pushing him away, I don't believe that part is cheating since you realized that it was wrong and didn't want to participate in it anymore. You should tell your boyfriend what happened and see how things work out from there.

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It's not something you wanted to do. As long as you truly did not want to do it. If that guy had his hands all over you while you were drunk, maybe your boyfriend should know? The less there is to hide between you two, the better off you are to last a lifetime with whomever you're with. Eventually the guilt will fade and you might be questioning if a makeout counts as cheating. Because we all grow a tolerance towards everything. :/ unfortunately..

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You need to tell him and be completely honest about everything your relationship shouldn't be built on lies plus that will probably haunt you that you never told.

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I wouldn't consider it cheating, because because it sounds like you quit as soon as you realized when was happening. I would still tell my boyfriend, though, because a real relationship keeps no secrets. He will be upset for a while, which is very understandable, but time will heal him. Just make sure you don't make the same mistake twice.

DID I CHEAT?????

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