Gay? how would you react?

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So how would you all react if you have been dating someone for 2+ years and find out he has a KIK account and has videos of himself putting dildos up his butt and all kinds of other things...he has been hiding all of this and has been on KIK for 3 1/2 yrs!!

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I'd be more concerned that he has a hidden account with videos like that that he's sharing with other people. Straight guys like ass play too, but it's definitely something that should only be shared with you, not the whole world.

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Well he may just like things up his butt doesnt mean hes gay.. and he couldve hid it because he figured youd react negatively... just sit down and talk to him about it

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Straight guys like things up the ass too. This does not mean he's gay. Just talk to him about it but don't make him feel bad by outright assuming that.

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I'd probably cry and be super disappointed that I never saw the signs. 
Then I'd Never talk to him again. Completely drop him like a hot sack of rocks.

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If it was my man, I'd be thinking I don't know this person at all and I can't trust him because he's been hiding who he is all this time. We've been living together for two years so I should know all the important/significant stuff about him.

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I mean just sit down with him and talk.....he might just like butt stuff....just ask...and if he is gay then he's gay.....if it's just that he likes butt stuff, then get a strapon

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Flat out ask him is he gay or is he just kinky.... now the vids are concerning.. is he sharing them with other males? ( then he is gay & cheating) is he sharing them with other females ( he's just cheating) idk how i would feel

Gay? how would you react?

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