hurting

I'm married to my best friend he is amazing and we want nothing more then to start our own little family! But the thing that bothers me most is when someone who claims to be your friend always says they don't want kids their life is about them and then they find out they are pregnant and I have been there for her as she puts it more then others but then wants to shove it in my face she is pregnant and I'm not how hurtful!