HELP!!!

So this post is sorta tmi but not to much lol. I'm 35 weeks and 1 day pregnant. I have had pelvic pressure  for a week and a half, I have pooped if your going to say to try to poop i poop every day. I also ha severe groin pain, I went to my local ER for feeling ILL the other day they did nothing so we drove an hour away to a different hospital they told my the cramps I'm having is normal and that its normal. But I'm also 1cm dialated but no contractions just a lot of back pain. I have a Dr appointment today and I'm worried that if I mention these this to her she will do nothing to make sure I'm ok and I'm almost ready to give birth at a hospital an hr away from me