annoyed with OB

I was told for weeks that if my cerviix was good I could be induced on the 21st. was told that even though I was going to a hospital out of town they could still schedule me. Was then told at my last appt that they actually can't schedule me at the place out of town (where I'll be staying for the next month and where my family is) because they don't work with that hospital and its associates. Made a new OB appt down here and was told that they won't induce unless I'm 10 days past due. So now I went from having my baby on Wednesday to I have no idea when. She's being adopted and I have so many financial issues that I have to go back to work in the middle of January, so now I'm completely stuck and terrified because I mentally won't be able to go back to work 2-3 weeks after having baby, giving her up and moving back to my place which is a few hours away. I'm overly stressed now and can't stop crying.