My partner has just told me he doesn't like to touch my pregnant belly because he finds it weird and a bit gross. I feel really offended. Would you?

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Men don't get it at all. I would not be offended but it might hurt my feelings a bit. I wouldn't let it bother you too much

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My husband is the same way. He says it freaks him out. He was like that with our son too. Fortunately, he was all about the baby once he arrived, so I forgave him quickly. 😂 A woman becomes a mother when she gets a positive pregnancy test, a man doesn't become a father until he holds that baby for the first time (or so they say).

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The gross part would piss me off but not liking to touch it wouldn't. It'd hurt a bit but for some it's odd and they don't feel as connected as we do. My sister freaked out the first time she felt my son moving but once she got pregnant changed completely.

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Mine touches my non existent bump all of the time and I hate that he doesn't have more to touch but I'd probably be upset if he never wanted to touch it

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I would feel awful if my boyfriend said that to me. He says there's nothing sexier than a woman carrying a child. And it's especially sexy that I'm carrying his child. He touches and rubs my belly all the time. :( maybe your man is just freaking out a little? Is this his first.

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Wow, is he really prepare to be a daddy and raise a child??? Because been pregnant is a bound mom & dad would love to experience, my Husband talk to the baby and kiss the belly   , i get so emotional when he does this ♡

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A lot of people are weirded out by feeling the baby kick, but saying it's gross is childish and hurtful, especially coming from your partner. I would be upset too.

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I would feel the same.  Yes it might be over reacting but like hello "YOU DID THIS TO ME"  i mean really..

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My sister doesn't like it so I tease her and make her touch it.

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Out yourself in his shoes if you thought something was weird and people were mad at you and !along you feel shitty for it would you want to suddenly touch it? Doubt it you'll descent the person for forcing you like that. He will come around on his own without you pushing it and if he doesn't as long as he loves baby that's all that matters right?

My partner has just told me he doesn't like to touch my pregnant belly because he finds it weird and a bit gross. I feel really offended. Would you?

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