Is this a reason to reconsider our relationship

riley
I've been dating my guy for almost 2 years. I lived a few hours away when we first started dating then moved to his town with him. His whole family and friends all live there it's where he grew up. All my friends and family live back in my home town. I only go home 1 time every few months. Every time I go home to see my mom and my friends he starts being so mean to me and calling me names saying he don't care if I come back, and then will ignore me while I'm gone. I went home yesterday and he was so mean to me and I cried the whole way home he said it's my fault for going back home, I've been gone since Sunday morning and he hasn't texted me once won't respond to any calls or messages and I'm here for another day. This is so frustrating that he expects me to only be around his family but when I want to be around mine he turns so ice cold