My boyfriend is great, and he is really good to me. But, today kinda pissed me off and I do not know what to do.

He came over after work and I told him I switched to Nuva Ring, because taking the pill was killing my stomach and making my moods out of control. I informed him that he may feel it and it weirded him out. And he was upset that I didn't go with the shot, but I don't want to do the shot. I'm sorry, but no. I've had to have shots twice a week for two years straight and I don't have to do that anymore, I don't want to add to my arm scars.

Anyways. After that happened, he put my hand on his junk. That's fine. Made my ego feel okay because I am on my period and I still somehow turned him on.

Well, he had to leave to go drive home. Before he left he kissed me and said he would see me tomorrow, and tried to touch my downstairs bits and said he'd see them in a few days.

Okay.

1. I wear pads. I rarely get a bathroom break and my tampons fill up too quick.

2. I was not in the mood for that shit.

3. I ducked and he couldnt grab.

4. I walked him to the door, kissed him goodbye, and he grabbed my downstairs bits.

Fuck. That. I am in a very VERY pissed off state and I did not want that. Normally I am okay with these advances but not today.

Plus he is trying to control which birth control I use? I don't even like using the stuff. Period. I hate it.

What should I say to him? I want to set him straight, but I do love him and he isn't normally like this.

I have been in relationships before where I was raped. This isn't that extent, but it did piss me off. I didn't want it to happen.

What should I say to him?