relationship issues 😞

LADIES what do you guys do when your man stops trying because he knows he has you for the rest of his life. My bf keeps saying he wants to marry me but we've been doing the same things for like 5 years now and I'm tired of feeling like this is a job I have to go to every morning until I go to bed. I may be hitting a wall or something but I want him to try even though we've been together for this long... I can't see myself ending things with him but I'm about to call a break or something to get him to realize what I want. Someone please give me advice..Â