As soon as someone knows or figures im pregnant, the theme breastfeeding, vaccinating, stay at home mamas come out?. Im not shy or anything but I dont talk about my personal decisions ir whatever with people and my babies topics will not be different. What is the proper way to let them know I appreciate there concerns and all but didnt ask for without my face showing discomfort?. Im not rude but staying shut and starring isnt polite either and hubby has told me a few times I look mad. But im not. I just think its personal.