blowjobs? tips/advice?

Question

I'm with my first boyfriend (3 months tomorrow), we haven't gone as far as sex but we have done things together.

I've tried to give him a blowjob twice and I just can't do it. My gag reflex is so sensitive and when I tried to do it last night I felt like I was going to throw up so I stopped. I usually end up getting him to finish himself and do it on my chest. I have used my hand before and he seemed to really enjoy it but my arm got tired😂😂.

I feel really lousy and bad for not being able to give him a blowjob though, especially because he is so good at getting me to finish ://

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And then it's important to bite as hard as you can at the end

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Don't feel bad, girl! It's totally okay to be nervous, worried, or not know what to do when it comes to blowjobs. Many of the websites and articles I visited all detail these general steps:
1. Kiss down his chest. Massage his groin area (balls, penis, all that)
2. Kiss and lick his penis, fondle his balls. Do this slowly for some time, it's like a little pre game ans it'll tease him ;)
3. Slowly take him into your mouth using your tongue. Try to stay relaxed so your mouth isnt too tight to let his penis rest in there. You can do some more tongue tricks and what not while he's in there
4. Find a groove he likes and stick to it. But also vary the speeds and pressures that youre going at.
5. The thing about having a sensitive gag reflex is to just chill out and let him go as far as you can take him, then breathe a little through your mouth, and see if you can take him any deeper. If you cant, spend time finding other ways to please him that are easier for you

Best of luck😄

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Haha I was the same .. Like I could barely brush my tongue without throwing up ..but learning how to suck helped with my gag reflex lol ..but just make sure you use your hand to give him kinda like a hand job while you suck him as far as you can go comfortable.. 😊.. And unless you've tasted the cum in your mouth maybe wait on that lol.  It takes some getting use to .. 😝

blowjobs? tips/advice?

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