Would you still date someone if they said they were a different sex then they actually are?

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Watching Jerry Springer, don't judge, and this girl came to meet this guy she met online that she really likes. Turns out the guy is actually a girl and she would get her brother to talk on the phone to disguise the fact she was a girl. Would you still want to date the person regardless of the lie?

I personally wouldn't.

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No way. That's called being cat fished.

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I wouldn't, just because they "catfished" me . If I'm supposed to be talking to you and telling you personal stories about my life and instead I'm telling this all to your brother..then you guys sit at the table later and talk about what I've said or pictures I've sent. No, thank you. Hard pass.

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I wouldn't because they were lying the entire time about who they were! There would be no trust & that's not a good way to start out a relationship.

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Nope, first of all that is deceiving as hell and no way would they be trustworthy. Second of all, I'm interested in men only.

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Well no because I'm heterosexual and I feel that a modicum of sexual interest is essential to a healthy relationship. If I were bisexual, I probably still wouldn't date them given that they were a lair.

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I don't date people who can't be honest me. Gender has nothing to do with it.

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That's so sad that she was deceived like that and actually caught feelings. I've heard about stories like that where they actually gave it a try. But that would be hard to get that trust back

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Their gender identity doesn't matter to me, but the fact that they lied to me and I haven't actually been talking to that person does.

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No, nope. No ma'am. You have to be honest and upfront with things like that. I would feel super betrayed and hurt. Like damn you had to trick me?! Not cool.

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In that situation, no. I wouldn't date that person. That's "catfishing". I would, however, be down to date a transman. Idc if they have a vagina, if they say they're a man, they're a man. We would have to figure some things out sexually, but if you love someone, then you love them.

I'm not really too worried about this though, since I already have a pretty serious boyfriend. If we ever broke up, I wouldn't be against dating a transman

Would you still date someone if they said they were a different sex then they actually are?

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