How to tell an ex you're pregnant
UPDATE: I ended up telling him that night. Reason being, he was telling me how he ran into an old mutual coworker of ours (who is friends with me on Facebook) and she went up to him and congratulated him. He asked her "congratulations for what??" And she said "oh.... umm never mind" and told me he thought I was either engaged or pregnant. I waited till dinner was done and we were at his house. He wouldn't stop talking about how he missed me and can't live without me so I HAD to come clean. I told him and he flipped out. He wasn't yelling at me or anything but he was in total shock. He kept saying I was always supposed to have his baby and he just couldn't believe it. I began to cry because I was just heart broken. I was finally reunited with the love of my life and I had to hurt him with the news. He grabbed me and told me it would not change a thing and he will love the baby just as much as he loves me. I haven't been this happy in so very long. He's been so amazing, making sure I'm taking care of myself. Plus, I have an 8 year old daughter who was very attached to him so she is so happy that we are going to be a little family again. I wanted to say thank you to all of the women who gave me their opinions with the upmost respect for my feelings. Everyone have a beautiful holiday!
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‼!! Before I begin, I am simply asking for someone's opinion. I will not accept rude comments so unless you want me to tell you off, keep it moving. This is a very touchy subject for me and I just want some kind advice‼‼Okay here goes. I was with a man for almost 3 years. It was QUITE the time for us. So many ups and downs. We ended more times than I could count. Bottom line, if you pass all the drama, we loved each other unconditionally. This man and I have been through hell and back countless times but we always find ourselves back in each other's arms. Our relationship never involved abuse of any kind, no cheating, nothing like that. Just a couple of hard headed people clashing once in a while.
So May comes along and we separate again. I decided to try and move on and meet someone else. Months later, when the new man and I ended, I decided to let my ex know and he was quite upset. Some ugly things were said and we ended it once and for all. I decided to try one more time with the new guy. Well, the moving on did not go as planned because of course, my heart simply could not let my first ex go. One little thing though, I ended up pregnant by this man I only briefly knew.
We dated just a couple months and I ended up pregnant. After all the years of trying and taking fertility medication to get pregnant by my ex of 3 years, I end up pregnant with a douche bag. A man I have absolutely no feelings for. A man who is already showing signs of being crazy. He's already threatened to take me to court to get rights and I'm only 11 weeks pregnant.
Well I reached out to my ex and I found out he's moving back to Pennsylvania where he's from. It's only going to be temporary but he wants to see me tonight before he goes. I just want to know how to tell him I'm pregnant. This is not something I want to keep from him. I was blessed with another baby and he will either accept it or he won't.
Thanks in advanced girls.
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