maybe pregnant- maybe marriage- and beliefs

my BF and I want a baby- we've talked about marriage and he said he would "get married eventually" which I guess it's better than not at all.  anyway, I could potentially be pregnant right now (I'm still days away from being able to take a test) and I go to church every sunday.  I probably should've waited but I can't help it because I want a baby so bad and I just turned 35.  Also, he goes to church with me but isn't saved... and I just found out that a pastor won't marry a couple if both parties aren't saved..   I guess I'm just a seeing if any of you gals are in the same or similar boat as me?