I'm not sure what to tittle this

I feel like so many people make parenting look so easy. They make it seem as if it will be so easy and there life isn't going to change or that it hasn't changed. They make it seem as if they don't think about 30 years down the road and the kids future. They make it seem as if there relationship isn't/hasn't changed. They make it seem as if they'll be doing it a little and that's it. They make it seem like having a kid isn't hard or that it won't be hard. Like it's just having a kid and just doing what you want.