Sexual frustration
My SO is relatively new to relationships, and I'm his first ever gf. As a gf I try my best to make him feel wanted and emotionally as well as physically fulfilled. Right? We both live by strict schedules (work, college, gym, and sleep). We live 30 mins from each other so it takes a lot of time and money to visit each other regularly. There have been many times were I lose sleep to spend a little more energy making him happy and relaxed 😏.
Now that I've explained that, I can tell you why I'm so frustrated. I feel like he's being a little up tight about his sleeping schedule for tonight. I threw a dinner party and by 11:30 everyone was gone and everything had been cleaned up. For the last 2 days I had expressed that my sex drive had increased to a significantly uncomfortable level. I'm demisexual so sex isn't something that I generally crave, it's derived from the emotional connection I feel with my SO. He has also been in the mood, but instead of staying for another hour to address my clear discomfort, he apologized and left.
He's told me before that he feels bad when I stay with him longer to get him off and I rarely ask for anything in return, but the one time I do he rejected me... he gets up at 7:30 or so and tomorrow is a super easy day due to the holidays. Not only that but he goes on vacation right after. That's plenty of time to catch up on sleep.
I don't want to seem thirsty or bratty. I don't know I'm just upset I guess. I also don't want to guilt him into staying just to please me. I feel like if he feels bad when I do it, then why wouldn't he do the same? Am I just being weird?
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