I really don't know who do go to with this, I don't want to involved my family in this decision, or his family because they would be all bias. He and I are suppose to move across the country together in less than 2 weeks, away from my family - for work for both of us. We've been dating about 15 months now, and it's been one of the hardest years of my life, like a series of unfortunate events. I will give you some back ground, my BF got in a car accident and was prescribe
opiates after he broke his back. He got addicted to them , and 2 years ago he came out of rehab and hasn't relapsed. Although, he is started to self medicate himself with
alcohol so he will forget his cravings for drugs. He and myself have become more depressed than we ever have been, I've been prescribed anti-depressants - and it's has changed my life for the best.. He is goin to look into them soon. He doesn't look for help on his own though, I don't like feeling like his mother, like I always have to take care of him... He is terrible with money, Ive been trying to help him handle his own money, but I ended up lending him around $7,000. I'm 21 years old and I've been divorced already. He's 26 years old. Here are some things that happened this year...January 2016, we both lost our jobs, I was laid off a couple weeks later he refused a piss test. March, he crashed his car in a flash freeze in a 14 car accident on the highway, so he has no wheels. June, he gets job a province away, so I let him use my car.... On his way home from work goes to eat with a coworker, they have a couple beer and food - coworker gets in a fight with the bar tender while my BF is sleeping in the car and the police come, breathalyze him , and charge him with a DUI. August, he has kidney stones and drives my car to the hospital while I'm at work and gets pulled over and gets my car impounded for 31 days. September, I get him a job after he's been unemployed for awhile, and while he is at work his tooth gets infected and he has to go to the dentist - they cannot prescribe him painkillers because he is a drug addict, so he drank himself to sleep that night, and the security at work smelled alcohol on him so they fire him. October - Decmeber we have been in school so nothing went seriously wrong, but is this the universe telling me I shouldn't be with him? Or should I hang in there and wait until we get to a better more stable and happy place ? He has the biggest heart, and he would be an awesome father, but I'm just worried he will never be happy, so then I will never enjoy life if I stay with him... Should I stick around, if so, for how long? Help :(
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