Too SHY to be SEXY!! >_<

Are any of you girls too SHY to be sexy??

Too shy to put on lingerie or make the daring advances??

If you are someone who's overcome this PLEASE share your advice!

Ive always been too shy to dress up for my man. Ive bought cute outfits, sex toys, and things.. i plan cute little episodes I want to experience with him, but as soon as hes there, i chicken.

I usually sleep fully clothed if he's there. Im so self conscious about my body.. but want to be daring for him. I know that while I dont dress up for him or be provocative, he gets that fulfillment elsewhere... from prettier girls

How can I be daring for him??

(I'm 5 foot, 100lbs healthy weight, flat chested, curvy thighs. We're near 3 yrs married)