this will be long get your 🍿is this verbal abuse

Okay so. I dated my boyfriend for 2 years we broke up and kept "hooking" up and I got prego...
We decided we will work things out and things we're going well.. we live together and all. Well fastforward 8 months and I get the joys of hearing I'm not in love with you... move out... then we get along and I can "stay" well things have been incredibly rocky.,. Between his family my family it's all taken a toll . 
He promised my family member he will come pick up my xmas present today... literally she has asked him like 3 times. She's only asking because it's super heavy.. she's older and shouldn't lift it and I'm 8 months. He just ignores her. Finally today he didn't show or text her to say he is not coming so I showed up and said I'll pick it up myself so we both took an end and lifted it... when I got home not only did he not offer to help me carry this huge ass box in... he watches me put this big ass thing together by myself, he literally only has time to do for him... and his 'family'. So this evening he goes to grocery store and gets his "needs" then I said hey are you hungry.. his reply "u haven't cooked yet so I just ate" well hello don't you think my pregnant ass is hungry too! I just built this thing then hung up our 2 mountains of clothes.so he ate my son and I are starving so at 8pm I have to run to a drive thru... we are sitting on the couch and he all the sudden let's the dog storm in... and I said hello we are eating!! He said then sit at table. Like literally it's been one thing after another I don't know how to take this my son calls him dad and tonight he was being a jerk and announced welll I'm not his dad. I literally don't no what to do... how to feel. This is literally poison. I'm depressed... I cannot imagine having a baby with this man now. This isn't the person I once loved and knew😭