Okay so I had a doctors appointment and my midwife checked my cervix and said it's very soft and I'm 2cm dilated, so no sex, orgasms, kick my feet up as much as possible, no stairs etc. and try to keep little man in for at least another month. well we are living in my mother in laws basement until we build our house, and she seemed pissed off when I told her the news? Idk what there is to be pissed off about. The only thing I can see is her being upset that I can't clean up after everyone like I constantly do.