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Okay so my bf and I have been together for about 2.5 yrs. I adore him and tell him everything. Anyway, during Halloween I went to a party with some friends and one of my friends (we've been friends for about 10 yrs now also we have history) was hitting on me hard. Like to the point were he totally went over the line and I started crying bc I felt so uncomfortable. So I left and went to my bfs house and told him about it and that was that. 
Well now all my friends want to hangout and stuff but that guy will always be there and idk what to do. I know I'll feel uncomfortable around him and I definitley can't take my bf around him bc my bf literally wants to fight him--understandably (this would cause a HUGE rift in my friend group with me). I explained the situation to my best friend and she understands for the most part but I've noticed now I'm not getting invited to as many places. I'm just kind of hurt bc I feel like the whole situation was my fault and I know it wasn't but literally no one knows what happened except for me, my bf, and my best friend. :( idk what to do :(

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It's not your fault but you have to understand that after telling your best friend your concerns that you might not be invited to everything as they will probably invite you to some and him to others to accommodate both friendships. I wouldn't take it too personally. Try to plan other things and invite your other friends so you still get your time with them. It's ok to distance yourself from him but you can't expect all your friends to as well if they're also friends with him. Just gotta work around it a bit.

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It's never your fault . He's the one making you uncomfortable and if you feel safe telling him them tell him you don't like what he's doing and how he's approaching you . That it's disrespectful to you and your relationship . If that doesn't work then I think its best to cut him off completely. Your safety comes first !

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You need to stand up for yourself and have a talk with that guy. Tell him you have a boyfriend and you have no interest in him. And if he tries to touch you or something smack him or tell your boyfriend to come over. I don't think you should miss a fun opportunity to be with friends just because that one guy will be there.

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