petty or not? 😒

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Okay, so my fiancé has over 100 girls on his snap chat. He doesn't talk to any of them that I know of. Would it be petty if me to ask him to delete them? They are his past and like I said, he doesn't talk to them. So why keep them? 
It kinda bothers me when he checks to see who watched his story and all I see are girl names. 
Be 100% honest with me. No hard feelings. I just want another females input.

By the way, I have no guys on snap chat. I deleted them in the beginning of our relationship, and he didn't ask me too. I just did it.

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Yeah he should delete them. I'm the only girl on my bfs. I am getting so sick of social media it causes so many problems.

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Just have an honest conversation about it. It's not petty it's just how you feel. I had the same issue with my guy and it was causing a lot of issues with us just because it bothered me so much but once we sat down and had a conversation about it he deleted them all no questions. He just wanted me to be comfortable with the relationship and since he had no sort of relationship with these girls he had no problem with deleting them and now we are so much better than we were before.

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If he's not talking to them I think his ego needs to feel validation or he wouldn't post anything for a reply to begin with. That he's still got it. That he's the man. Or flatters his ego makes him feel good that people take the time to read what he says or does. He feels poplular or accepted Etc. I could care less for other people's opinion or need validation. I have less than 10 pictures on instagram and been with my guy 4 years still says I'm single online. I don't have anything to prove or show off etc. The people that are close to me know we are together. I just keep the accounts for friends and family and post once in a blue moon. The best sign of a healthy relationship is that there is no sign of it online. I don't post if I'm mad at him etc. My business is my business. You deleting men was your sign that you are taking this seriously. You respect the relationship etc. Hopefully he's not talking to other girls behind your back and keeping them as a back up plan. It's up to you if you want to ask him to delete them. He could say you don't trust him or are jealous or insecure or controlling. It's up to you if you want to ask him to.

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Nope! I would do the same exact thing :) You go girl! 💖👍🏽

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No, I don't think that's petty

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I did that with my boyfriend too. I deleted guys without him asking and talked to him to delete girls off his too if he doesnt talk to him .

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I think it depends on the relationship!

Personally, I don't care who my SO has on snap. But I totally understand if that bothers you! Just talk to him, and he should be just as understanding that is bugs you :)

petty or not? 😒

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