Is it bad if I won't pursue a boy?

Rebecca • 19, college student
I'm not trying to be patriarchal or whatever, but I wouldn't approach a boy or ask them out or pursue them, even if I liked them. I want them to come after me and woo me, ya know? I'll smile and make eye contact and throw glances to let him know that I feel something, but I'll never make the first move. I feel like it's not my job. I know this doesn't sound progressive and sounds like I'm not that independent, but I want to feel wanted and chased! What are your thoughts on this, girls? 😌 Be nice please.