Just recently I found out that he still talks to her on a regular and I flipped, I asked him to stop talking to her and I threw such a fit his answer was "you are my priority, I'm here to please you" but ,I seen yesterday he didn't give a fuck about what I asked of him . His still talking to her, I haven't said anything because I didn't wanna ruin our holidays. Well , that back fired as my mother landed in the hospital and was very ill a day before nye. I was crying and terrified for my mother , I expected him to be there with me , as my husband to be there to support me and wipe my tears away. 

To be there for my family and I. But he chose to stay behind... 

I called him wanting him to be next to me at least for the nye and his response was "unfortunately I can't do that , I don't want to" I got really sad and started going off my feelings . He basically said "now I will go , because you guil tripped me , great job" I said I didn't want a hypocrite next to me , things are done out of heart not because you've been guilt tripped and he said well then learn to shut up i wasn't expecting him at all then  . Me and the little sisters headed to the store to buy a pie and he called me saying open the door. Since I wasn't at my parents that same second he arrived and I let him know I was at the store that I would drive back . I came back 3 mins later and he was gone , ignoring my texts and calls . ( like why are you doing this to me ? Why are u adding more shit to the pile I already have right now ?) he made the 3 hour drive back home . We didn't talk and he showed up to the hospital while I wasn't there yesterday and I arrived a few hours later . We didn't talk much , just not making things awkward for anyone else. We came home and he won't sleep next to me . Won't talk to me . He just left the house without saying a word . I don't know what do anymore .