boyfriend still can't get me there in bed
I've been with him for a little over a year and he has never made me orgasm on his own. I had a mental block when we first started having sex where i couldn't even get myself off at all during sex. now I can help myself almost every time but it takes way longer than it does when I masturbate alone. I'm tired of having to be responsible for my own orgasm all the time though, and i feel like it disrupts the mood because every time we have to take out like 30 mins at least for me to get there and it usually ends up feeling disconnected emotionally. I don't know how to describe it, it just interrupts the whole process bc it's usually me laying there with a vibrator and him maybe playing with my boobs or barely moving his dick when he gets bored. I'm making him out to sound like an asshole lol he's not but he is clueless and doesn't last long at all..he has improved a bit after googling things but it's not working that well still. Any tips I can give him?? I need my boyfriend to be able to make me orgasm or this isn't going to work, and I really don't want to break up with him. 😞
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