So it seems like my husband doesn't want to think or talk about this 3rd baby! Every time I bring up something baby related he doesn't have much reaction. This baby wasn't planned and I have been stressing about it as well but I am trying to get excited about it. But it's hard when my husband is being such a downer about everything! It's so frustrating! So I have given up talking about the baby! I am planning things on my own and gonna make sure I feel ready even if he isn't!