Answering Her Question....

Q: Porn in a relationship?

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Look PERSONALLY I don't agree with porn in ANY relationship AT ALL!

Whether it's him or you.

I also know of heartbreak and neglect from porn addiction in a relationship.

When he chooses "them" over you! You know how that makes a woman feel? And she has EVERY right to feel that way! Is he not completely satisfied with you? Does he find those "women" with loose morals and low self-esteem more desirable than you? Is he too lazy to have REAL SEX, so he jacks off like a looser boy, who can't get laid? Does he not RESPECT you and your feelings?

If a man can't overcome this evil and temptation, then he's NOT worth you giving your life, happiness, and self-esteem up for.

You DESERVE BETTER! You DESERVE A REAL MAN!

If you live and commit to one another, then there is NO ROOM for a third relationship!

I don't care if it's him just jacking off, but NO PORN! If I can do it when he's gone, SO CAN HE! It's not that frigging hard!

I also think that it IS LUST! You CANNOT get off "just looking," or else men would be cumming anytime they were around attractive women. LUST plays a HUGE part in sexual arousal!

And the ONLY REASON they aren't "tapin' that" in real life, is cuz there would be REAL CONCIQUENCES!

And what woman in her right mind would even utter the demeaning words, "I'm okay with it, because it's not like he's cheating with real women." Your sentence PROVES you think it's still cheating! Some other bitch is making him squirt INSTEAD OF YOU! 

And most of the time they are getting off to porn, you are in the next room! So this "man" would rather choose a ugly ass slut to watch as he ungentlemanly jacks off, then the GORGEOUS and HOT WOMAN he's got in HIS BED! WTF?! It is SAD that SO MANY women are taught to believe that the actions of men are "okay" and "excusable because of their nature" BOY! I'm a FRIGGIN WOMAN! I got urges too, but you don't see me acting low down behind my man's back!

I call BS on women who were just too weak and afraid to stand up for THEMSELVES and

their RELATIONSHIP, so they created a coping mechanism to deal with their unhappiness and pain! I'm sorry but I've seen this pain first hand, and ANY MAN OR WOMAN who shames you for condemning porn are a bunch of blind, sick , pieces of SCUM! And any "man" that doesn't give a shit about how you feel or watches porn, IS A LOWDOWN SCUMBAG who can't appreciate the WOMAN he has!

Not to mention, those women are part of an INHUMANE industry as well as the WORST example of women, sex, and how to treat both! 🤦🏼‍♀️ SMH

BESIDES all that, regardless if it were right or wrong, shouldn't the REAL question be;

Why can't he respect how it makes you feel? REGARDLESS of how "illogical" he may think it is, shouldn't a REAL MAN sacrifice a small pleasure of his, to please the REAL WOMAN in his life? And why should that be hard? Or illogical for a woman to ask? Why is that EVEN STILL a pleasure of his? REAL MEN don't need or desire porn, because they have a REAL WOMAN in their bed!

Sex is a special and intimate time for couples to learn each other, grow closer, connect their souls, and partake in a Heavenly pleasure Designed by God for a man and his woman!

Porn takes away from this and destroys what is there.

You SHOULD BE ABLE to COME TO EACH Other for ANYTHING as well as FULFILL ALL of y'alls desires! My theory, "if you can replace me with a porn girl, or jack off alone, why do you need me? You, your right hand, and the bimbo on the screen seem to be happy without me.

AND YES! All these facts have been PROVEN by plenty of studies!

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