Birthday expectations

Hello everyone!!! So I wanted to put this out there because I can't tell if I am being pregnant and emotional or if I should really be this upset. So yesterday was my birthday. Every year I plan my birthday but was really hoping my husband would take the initiative this time. So...to keep things simple

Would you be upset if your husband didn't do breakfast with you, took you to do something you do often after you asked him what we are doing, didn't take you to dinner, and didn't buy you a gift?

I know I may sound spoiled, but all I wanted was a small hand written note like he usually does. Instead it was like he forgot...for dinner I ended up eating alone downstairs in tears because I just felt...forgotten. I really hope to get feedback on this...please don't be unnecessarily rude...I see a lot of women are on here