I honestly feel like i have no one to turn to for advice on this matter. My mom has been my only parent for 23 years of my life. For the last year, i have had the most wonderful boyfriend i have ever had in my best friend of 6 years. His family is so supportive & caring of me & they include me in literally EVERYTHING they do. So when it came down to planning the baby shower my mom was all for it until i shot down a venue for being too small to accommodate everybody ( including my boyfriend's large family). Suddenly it became an issue of her not wanting to feed a big amount of people & not wanting to deal with a larger family. I know she has always been anti social but it's gotten to the point that her comments have gotten out of control. She decided she didnt want to deal with the baby shower anymore & was going to let his family take care of it.