How can my mum let me AGAIN?

Question

So I have a boyfriend, we first went out august 2015 and We broke up in march 2016, we got back together in march again and we broke up in December 2016, we are back together now and mum and dad doesn't like the fact that he has broken up with me 2 times even tho he is going through an extremely tough time they just don't quite understand, I want to go to his house tomorrow and they let me the other week whilst we weren't dating and a couple of days after we broke up but I was hinting it to mum and I know she will be angry, I am 14 so this is why it is harder for me to tell them anything! And they don't know what he has been through because he only told me and he trusts me to not tell anyone so we were always in love since augurst 2015 it's just we had a little break because of issues. So he has done nothing wrong for my parents to 'hate' him but I still think they do. I just need help on how my parents can like him again ??

Answer

Honestly, you're 14. This boy, no matter what he's been through the fact still remains he has a habit of breaking up with you. You need to see it from their side which is, you're extremely young, I'm assuming he's young, I'm assuming the breakups were hard on you, and they've seen that. They are trying to protect you. They love you. You shouldn't have a hard time telling them things because they care. They may make decisions that you don't like, but you're not grown. You don't entirely know what's best for you yet. Take solace in the fact that they love you enough to make decisions you don't like. 
Personally, if my fourteen year old daughter was going through this I wouldn't even let her talk to him until he figured things out. That is not something I'd want for my daughter. Teenagers don't have things all figured out, but I wouldn't allow someone to keep ripping wounds into her. One breakup is understandable, two is a little too much, and it shows there's a possibility for a 3rd so...

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It'll probs be hard for ur parents to like him given the fact that he's hurt u twice (because parents will be on ur side and dislike him for the breakup). I think the only way for them to accept him again is through time. U need to show ur parents through many things that he is actually a really good guy and that u want to be with him. There's no immediate way for ur parents to sudden like him.

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girlll i'm 14 too and trust me if your parents don't like him it won't last, leave him and slay x