when people keep on that your quiet

Question

I absolutely hate when people keep on that I'm quiet

" oh you're really quiet" < is the popular: worst one.
" you hardly talk " 
" don't be shy"

Makes me feel so small, especially when the same people keep on that I hardly know.

I suffer from social anxiety. I don't need to be reminded and embarrassed.

Anyone else hate this or is it just me?!??

I'm not that quiet when I know the person.. but when people keep on at me makes me not want to come out of my shell.
I hate it!!!

Answer

Ugh yes. I got told that alllll through school. "Hailey why are you always so quiet" or "You know I never hear you talk"
*I talk
"Omg Hailey you talk?" 
Annoying as hell. Not everyone is a social butterfly.

Answer

I've worked really hard on my shyness and social anxiety for years. It's tough and a constant struggle. I think what's most hurtful to me is when friends of friends talk behind my back about how I seem distant or like a snob because I'm not fully involved in the conversation. Or because I'm not laughing and giggling and smiling a lot. I'm not disinterested or think I'm better than anyone else, often times I just have no idea what to say and I don't want to sound dumb or uncool or awkward or like I'm talking about myself too much, etc. Ugh.

when people keep on that your quiet

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