boyfriend help

Sarahmarie
So I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and our relationship is boring.
We don't go on cute dates for weekends away or anything anymore. 
If I want to go on a picnic that I would of liked him to plan I have to do it all my self and he just says this is crap. 
If I want him to plan something I know he will never do it so I plans it my self to make my self happy. 
What to do?????
Help a sister out