So, over a year ago my boyfriend & I went to a friends house for a party & all of his friends wanted to go to a trashy, local strip club. He said that if I didn't want him to go then he wouldn't, but I didn't want to upset him. I decided for whatever reason to go with him & his friends after his girlfriends convinced me to go with them. Long story short, it was awful & he get multiple lap dance from some really nasty strangers & I was super drunk & uncomfortable. We fought about it & that was our first real fight & it was horrible. Then, a few month after that he went again, but didn't bother to tell me until later the next day & his excuse was "my friends made me go, it's not like I had a choice"... Every time I bring it up he gets all pissy & defensive & then shrugs it off.

Should I grow up & let it go or bring it up again almost 2 years later & get a real, honest apology? HELP!!!