husband doesn't understand urgency

Dasi
I'm 38 and my husband is 44. We haven't been not using protection since late May. Just went through the first month of ovulation testing and the tests didn't show what they said they were supposed to show.  I took the test everyday for 5 days and it showed low fertility all 5 days. Then it skipped the 2 days of high fertility and went straight to the 2 days of peak. My husband has a hard time feeling pressure to perform during the ovulation schedule and doesn't want to feel like a robot. I'm feeling very overwhelmed feeling like I'm trying alone. Not sure if my age is causing the ovulation skippage? Not sure how I can get my husband to understand the urgency of the situation in trying to get pregnant. Any advice would be welcome!