Doctor Shame
I had a doctors appointment this afternoon to get the harmony test form and the doctor got stuck into me about my weight.... previously when getting pregnant (first go I might add, when I had lots of people telling me it won't happen unless you lose weight) I had so much anxiety about it,
What if I just look fatter and not pregnant at all?
What if I get the dreaded GD
What if, what if, what if!!!! About 2 weeks ago I started to feel happy and confident and BAM this doctor was telling me I may need a bigger bed, I won't be as flexible blah blah blah- she doesn't even know me!! Why is there such a stigma against over weight girls wanting to have a baby. I became so tired of saying I will live my life when I lose weight, so threw caution to the wind and here I am, but why do they feel the need to embarrass us and make us feel like we are are not human even?
I'm a big, beautiful, strong woman who can DO this and I refuse to be made to feel otherwise!
PS: My partner has not problems with my flexabilty if you know what I mean 😉😉
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