Does he really want to be with me? (Really Long & Reposted)
I'm 17 & my babies father is 18. I'm almost 19 weeks pregnant and our relationship has been so rocky recently. This past weekend we've been into it so bad (over some female on instagram & comments) which ended in me asking if he honestly wanted to be with me. I got so upset over the comments and pictures because my insecurities set in (will post the screenshots below). He kept giving me sideways answers, claiming I was jealous and my jealousy was making him not want to be with me. So that PISSED me off and he claimed that it was just comments and he didn't know why she said that to him. 
It got to the point to when we're into it I got his mom involved and she made us decide that night if we were going to be together or not. If he honestly wanted to be with me for me. He ended up saying he didn't. He felt that he was just not ready for a relationship and it's best if we break up. After that he began texting me sounding sad saying he doesn't feel he made the right decision.. so I told him to take the night and think on it. The next morning he called me again saying he wanted to be with me.. for the baby. He was saying he would do what it "takes to do right by me and the baby". Even if it meant getting married (which he doesn't desire to do until he retires from the Air Force which I don't agree with). So that same night I reached out to him and realized something just wasn't right.. he ended up telling me that he doesn't feel he wants to be with me.Me as a woman. He wanted to be with me just for our daughter because he feels I will keep her away from him. I told him that no matter what I wouldn't keep the baby from him.. and we broke up for good.. I told him I didn't wish to speak to him &I I needed time and space to be able to detach myself before the baby came. That if anything happens I will contact his mother to let him know. I cried myself to sleep that night ..
2 days later (today) he called me and me while I was in class. I didn't answer. I texted him letting him know I was okay and that the baby was okay because that's what he usually asks when he break up and he calls. He said that's not what he called for but he called because he wanted to get back together. I will put the screenshots below also because if I typed it it would make it so much longer. I need advice. I'm so lost and I'm tired of going back and forth. I miss him like crazy and I want nothing more but to have a family with him. I'm afraid he will leave again once the baby is here or even worse! I want to believe he changed his mind because he loves me and wants to be with me because of who I am. Not the baby, not anyone else guilting him into being with me.
Btw we've been together for 9 months (prior to the breakup).
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