Ugh mothers and boyfriend's

Amanda • 27 ttc for #1

So I was pretty upset last night at what my mom said about my boyfriend. Apparently she doesn't like him bc he doesn't come over to her house and help out I said I'm sorry he has 2 jobs and goes to college plus he's a father like that's not his place to go help her or my dad do anything and even if he was my husband it's not his place bc he's not her son. Anyway she goes on to tell me she appreciates my sisters boyfriend for helping my dad with a car uh this guy has nothing to do and has no job, he's recently out from prison but she seemed to like him over my boyfriend who is a personal trainer and he has a very good reputation around the town he lives in and is pretty successful so far and he's wanting to be a physical therapist one day (that's what he's studying for) anyway why do you think my mom doesn't like my boyfriend? Is it bc he treats me good? Or could it be jealousy? bc my dad and her marriage is failing so I was like really? Wtf and that sure as hell doesn't make my boyfriend want to go over to her house for any family function now bc of her shit talk about him which of course I told him about. I just turned 28 and I'll be moving in with my boyfriend very soon. I felt really hurt by her statement bc I've dated real losers before and now I have an amazing man she doesn't like him ? Uh wth? He takes care of me in any way I need. I mean he barely has time for me why would he make time for her? We're not in high school where he needs my parents approval or anything. Idk am I right to be hurt over this? I feel like I finally have a good man and some family members like doubt us. We've been together almost a year now. Next month is our one year anniversary and this is the longest relationship I've had and we are very serious which my family knows and I talk about how good he is to me all the time. He even bought me a Christmas gift that I didn't ask for, he does stuff like that all the time too. Idk I'm just real hurt over it 😔

Sorry for the rant I was just so caught off guard by what she said and let me add she wasn't just talking with me she basically was attacking me I felt which she does often or when we disagree. I really thought she was cool with my boyfriend like she was proud of me idk I'm just hurt over it