Baby or wedding first??

Ok so my bf and I are getting engaged soon (like within a month) and we are also ttc. I'm having so many mixed feelings about it I still want to try to get pregnant now or wait until after getting married. We've been trying since early Nov but had a miscarriage last month. Anyone go through something similar and/or have advice?? Ps. I just turned 33 so we are doing things a little later that most.