In desperate need of advice!!

Michelle
Ohkay so me & my husband recently got married in march of 2016 and have two boys and things always seem like their going great then going bad. When he's watching TV he don't wanna know anyone or barely even talk to me...we barely talk as it is. We we will be going strong for a week or two and then fall apart again to where he says mean things and put downs and his excuse is always "idk" I need desparate advice!!!