is this normal?

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Ok! So I am going to put this here and I really want honest opinions from women who are married (or in love girlfriends) and are going through the same thing! 
So, speaking of social media! Both me and my husband have Facebook or Instagram etc... What I have noticed (and not recently) is that my husband avoids to like any of my posts! 😐Not 100% of the time but almost! Instead, he likes other people's posts! Women or men! I mean... I take it very personal because it is! And I told him that it bothers me and what he does is that he likes a post of mine in that day (like making it up or something) and then he ignores my posts over and over again! There are so many issues in our marriage and this is one of the things that I hate! 
Please, has anyone gone through something similar? ☹️

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Lol my husband never likes my post. I think it's just because he has to listen to me every day anyways, my posts are probably something he already heard me say 😜 
Don't take offense to it. Honestly.

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As a married women!

Do you hear your self love? This is a issue in your marriage? A like post? That's nonsense.. you gotta let this go, or just get off the social media if it's causing fights. Marriage is already hard work to begin with don't let something so simple to remove or to get over let enter your marriage and screw with it, and most of all hurt you in any way. Your his biggest LIKE button! And you should feel that he values you by one on one time, and that he wakes up and goes to bed to YOU not Facebook.

Marriage is a roller coaster, days I wake up and feel like I'm on cloud 9. And sometime I wanna Dateline 😉 his ass.... lol 😂

Stay strong! 🙌🏼🙌🏼💕💕

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That would annoy me. Why can he like other women's photos but not his wifes photos?

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My husband and I don't ever go on each other's social media accounts. I mostly use instagram and my husband is only of Facebook. It's probably the best thing in our relationship. Social media causes so many unnecessary, petty, fights. I think as women we over analyze a lot. Men don't think that far into it. Your SO probably feels like he sees you every day, talks to you every day, he doesn't need to like your posts. Whereas you're looking too far into it. 
If it's upsetting you talk to him. But personally, I think it probably means nothing.

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I just read an article about how people are divorcing over social media issues like this. In the grand scheme of things, this doesn't matter. Maybe it would be best if you both logged off for awhile and focus on each other.

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I agree. It's nice just to have some validation occasionally and to have a man who will boast to the world how much he loves you to everyone. I always tell my hub I want him to post about me on fb or on my wall and he never does! But does to others! It would be one thing if he made it up in person but ugh. He doesn't. 🙄. I feel for you

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This shouldn't be an issue.  Just ask him about it.

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Ask yourself "in 5 years will it upset me my husband didn't like my Facebook post" (which may be obsolete by then) and realize how petty this argument actually is and save yourself from bickering over something trivial.

is this normal?

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