different spelling

we are 100% on the name Lilah.. like Delilah but without the (De).. all spelling has its pros and cons.. when I spell the name to my friend the name Lilah she assume it was being pronounced (lee)la, when I spell it lylah I feel like the will pronounce it (Lay)ah, if I spell it Lila people will say (Lil)a... is there any win? I need some advice....