I always thought I would never be able to orgasm by hand. I've always used a vibrator, always at a very intense speed. But I've come four times now just by hand and a little help from some recorded moaning sounds :P The first time was so subtle that I almost didn't think it was an orgasm, but this last one I had was just as pleasurable as the ones I get with a vibrator. I still use a vibrator sometimes just for fun. Don't feel bad if it's the only thing that can get you off. There's nothing wrong with that and anyone who implies so doesn't need to be a part of your sex life. But I just wanted to share for those of you who are trying to orgasm without the use of a vibrator. It is possible.