Does sex feel good?

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Okay so I've been fingered before but I don't enjoy it all, it actually feels a bit painful & I do not get aroused by it. I'm still a virgin so I do expect it to be painful but does a penis feel any different? I know it's bigger.

Has anyone been fingered before and once they've had sex realized a huge difference? Or is it a similar feeling to being fingered?

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Starting to have sex or even being fingered hurts for the first little while. It's like wine lol you have to drink it and get use to it before you start to enjoy it... my first couple time F***ing hurt

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The first five times I had sex were awful. It hurt so bad, my vagina was so sore. But when my husband and I did it I felt so much pleasure 😍 Now I'm a nympho for him lol.

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Yeah it does hurt the first couple times.. But after you get use to it ..it feels better then a finger .lol

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Honestly it's less about how many times and more about whether or not the other person knows what they are doing. For many women the first time having sex can be a little painful, but if your partner listens to what feels good to you (clit/g spot stimulations, touching, kissing, etc) and doesn't just try to jam their finger in and out of you (I've been there, believe me) it'll be a lot more fun, I promise you. 💕

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Sex will hurt to begin with. It really does. I will not lie or sugar coat it. I hate being fingered. I lost my virginity at 15 but until I started having Sex regularly at 20 I didn't enjoy it. Now I love it. Wait until you are with the right person that you trust and is willing to ease you into it. It isn't going to be fun or easy at first but it gets better

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The first time I ever got fingered it last 3 seconds before I pushed him away bc it hurt like a motherfucker and I was sore from those 3 seconds WHEN I WOKE UP THE NEXT DAMN MORNING. Then a few months later when I was with a different (and better) guy and he fingered me it didn't hurt at all, I think he just knew how to do it better and at a better angle. I lost my virginity to him and it hurt like a motherfucker the first time. I was so nervous and we were in the back of my car so it wasn't comfortable. The next 2 times after that we had sex in an actual bed so that felt better, but it still hurt and I couldn't go that long. Then the next time we had sex and he put it in I was expecting the pain to come and it just didn't. I didn't feel anything except like pleasure, no pain. I literally said "wait it doesn't hurt anymore" and he laughed 😂 the more aroused you are, the "looser" your vagina will get. I think it's all about how comfortable you are with your partner and where you're actually having sex. Even if it does hurt the first time or two, it's so worth it once it stops hurting. Like damn 😩👌 if you bleed a little the first time I wouldn't flip out right away. However if at any time after you have sex and you start bleeding heavily or for more than one day, go to a doctor bc something is probably wrong