Does anyone have advice on How to Get the Guy?

Tay
Hey ladies! There's a guy I've liked for a few months now. We've hooked up once before, but I get the vibe that the relationship is purely physical to him. Does anyone have advice on how to make him like me more than just a sex buddy? Also, how do I tell him I don't want to hook up again unless it's going somewhere? (He asked to meet up again!) all stories/advice helps :) thank you!!