This is a rant please be warned.

I'm so sick of "trying"

Trying to lose weight. Trying to get some sort of reg periods. Trying to ovulate. Trying to get pregnant. Trying to keep the sexy alive when we have specific days to be intimate. I dont know if any other ladies feel this way. But im emotionally tired of trying. The dr said 6 more months then more tests. Ugh so that would put us at 2 yrs ttc. Like for real trying. =( also its been a yr of trying to adopt (well waiting for a child ) but either way this is soo draining. Everyone on his and my side are prego or have kids.. Whats wrong with us!? 2 steady good jobs a nice home. Good cars. 2 cuddly dogs. Still not good enough. I realize thats a lot to be thankful for but its been especially hard after our miscarriage. =( im just wondering what others do to cope? Thanks for listening.