My husband and I got married in 2013. We didn't have a wedding. Just had parents and grandparents go with us to the courthouse and then eat lunch together after. We did go on a honeymoon after. Well this year will be four years of marriage and we've went through some things and come close to divorce over these. We were able to work though it and come out strong. We're expecting a daughter this summer and for our anniversary this year I want to do a small vow renewal and reception after and invite family and friends. I'm really doing it for me and him to re commit but would love to have pictures and the memories to look back on as we are starting over. What do you think? Is it completely ridiculous to have a ceremony etc