I cant be the only one who hates my mother-in-law

She can be a royal bitch. Saddest part is we used to be so close. In the last 4 out of 9 years its gone to shit with her. She first off is an alcoholic and a closet alcoholic which makes her worse. She has attacked me after coming home from christmas shopping because i got home at 11:45 and she thought i wass cheating so she fought me. Since then (that was the beginning 4 years ago) she has been a major bitch and pain in my ass. All attention has to be on her at all times or she does something to make everyone pay attention. Like sending us mean texts and bottles of xanax that she will apparently take cause her life is so fucking bad *sarcasm*. When she has her nails and hair done every month, new clothes every week that she doesnt even have storage for and wants to complain that her life is shit? Not only does she have all the material things but she has her family too. Im tired of her treating me like an ugly step child. Her house is clean cause shes a clean freak yet she comes to my house and makes a huge mess example number 1, dropped a puddle of coffee on my floor and left it, threw trash in a statue i have out front (clearly not a fucking trash can,lady) and after leaving messes she says "you should clean more so you dont get ants". There is so much more shit i have to handle but im too mad right now and typing like a mad man. I just cant catch a break with this lady.

To shiloh: thanks for your response <3 i have talked to them both, he says "its my mom what am i supposed to do" should i be pissed? Cause i kinda am.. this isnt a bullshit relationship been together 9 years and plan to marry each other so i feel as if i should be treated a little better. As far as her relationships she divorced his dad and got almost 1,000,000 from him and after 4 years is pissed cause its almost gone and takes it out on us. She is def jealous of anyone in a relationship because she does it to her own daughter. But when i defend myself im a total bitch to everyone and i can feel their weirdness. Idk. Makes me super sad that its this way after what it was. Shes money hungry and still wants to take him back to court for more. And shes gone psycho