My fiancé and I have been discussing what we are going to do once we have a baby. I don't want to stay home but he doesn't want our babies to go off to daycare. I suggested that he stay home because my career means a lot to me and I make plenty of money to support a family. He doesn't really have a career the way I do and he doesn't make anywhere near what I make. I want him to stay home if he wants to. Is it selfish to tell him to stay home with the kids?